ADVICE FOR THE GUYS.

1. Before you start a relationship with a lady, you must think carefully about what you are about to do. A relationship is not something you should rush into or handle lightly.

2. Are you ready for a relationship with her?
Are you emotionally, mentally and spiritually mature to meet
her needs?

FOUR TIPS TO BALANCING A SUCCESSFUL PERSONAL RELATIONSHIP AND A CAREER:

1. COMMUNICATION – Communication is one of the most essential aspects of a successful relationship. To your partner, you must communicate your goals, the process of your career, and your feelings about your workload, and everything that is going on in your professional life. People do not know what you do not tell them! Do not assume that having a good relationship equates to automatically knowing what the other person is going through at all times. You have to openly express your happiness, concerns, stress, and changes that you think need to be made. Sometimes people avoid communicating their feelings out of fear, but talking about everything with your partner is worth it.

A GOOD WOMAN, MAKES A GOOD WIFE AND A GOOD WIFE BECOMES A GOOD MOTHER. A GOOD MOTHER GIVE BIRTH TO A GOOD CHILD. IF YOU WANT TO BE ONE EMULATE

THESE STEPS BELOW:

1). Never raise your voice for any reason to your husband. Its a sign of disrespect.
2). Don't expose your husband's weaknesses to your family and friends. It will bounce back at you. You are each other's keeper.
3). Never use attitudes and moods to communicate to your husband, you never know how your husband will interpret
them. Defensive women don't have a happy home.
4). Never compare your husband to other men, you've no idea what their life is all about. If you attack his Ego, his Love for you will diminish.
5). Never ill treat your husband's friends because you don't like them, the person who's supposed to get rid of them is your husband.

Congratulations Kemi ON your Engagement .,Video

Congratulations to my friend KEMI on  your Engagement .... My sweet Course mate am happy for you ....

Please Advice Me : How Do I Tell My Boyfriend I Gave Him HIV, After Sleeping Wit

Please I would like to remain anonymous

I really love this blog and I have been holding back a lot. Today I want to share a story about myself and get advice from people. I am a student in one of this northern university. I have an off and on boyfriend  whom I love so much. We practically do everything together.

We Just Had Sex few Minutes before she died. Please Read My Story...

Have not eaten all day, I am not fasting but am
in despair and in shock. How can I explain this to you? By this time last night, she was in my arms,we were cuddled together Unclad and just finished making love to catch up for the lost
time. It was pleasurable as usual and we enjoyed it. We haven’t seen each other for few weeks and we were in love. She was the lead chorister in my church, a vibrant sister, very beautiful but was my lover and partner in sin. I saw her off at about 10:18PM. It wasn’t up to 30 minutes when

Happy Birthday My Love From Engr Dominic Marconi ( Dom-Marc Global)

Today My Princess adds a year. Succex Eromosele ... As you add a year today may God continue to protect you for me....

When I met you, I never believed I will Ever Fall in love again,you made me know what Love is all about. Loving You was the best thing that has ever happened to me. I Love you ,the love Of my life...

Man proposes to his girlfriend at Egbeda market in Lagos (photo)

The guys shared  his story himself. Read below...

I would love to share my sweet proposal with your readers, which I did in the middle of time square (Egbeda market) by stopping the entire activity of the market and blocking the roads as passers-by and on lookers stopped to watch which made drivers and riders petrified and stayed put as they watched the event of the day unfold.

Tough Love -InLove with him.... despite his challenges.....

I am the most confused human being on this planet. I need the advice of everyone on this channel. I'm in my late 20s and I have a serious relationship that is 7years now. We both love ourselves so much but the problem is that my parents does not even want to set their eyes on my guy not to talk of allowing me to marry him.
We have had so much quarrels on that & their reason was that they prayed about it, we are not compatible. But I Don't believe them.

How To Easily Make A Niaja Girl Sleep With You. By PlayBoy

When you talk about women and their way of thinking , I must say they vary according to different cultures.

To get laid by a Nigerian girl takes extra ordinary things and trust me it isn't all about your money or swag.

Down And Dirty At The Cinemas (18+) BY AKINWALE AKINYOADE

The man pulled on his car door to double check that he had locked it before darting a look furtively around to see if anybody was watching him before he adjusted his suit and walked smartly into the cinema.  He was supposed to be at work but he had agreed to meet her here after she had complained about how much she never got to see him again these days. Although busy, there was something about Cassandra and her soft velvet he could not resist. He was still a little bit uncomfortable that he had agreed to meet her during work hours at a public place like a cinema on a weekday. Most of the people he knew would be at work anyway, he thought to himself as he got out of

Please Advice: Am inlove with a stranger.....

Please, I want you to advise me. I am a 24 year old girl and I met with a guy who is from my state of origin. Though it took me time to accept his proposal for a relationship & as we started the journey I realized he was caring and he cared about my career but sometimes he was skeptical of trusting me and this brought up a lot of complications and we later settled the issue.

How to know if A Nigerian Man Loves you...

1. You will know if he loves you from your intuition, that Gut feel, if something is off or doesn't feel right, then he doesn't love you. There shouldn't be any doubt when it comes to love. If you doubt it, then he doesn't love you.

2. If you are sexually active with him; tell him you want to abstain from sex for a little while and see how he responds to that. If he loves you, he will abstain genuinely without cheating on you with somebody else. If he doesn’t love you, he will definitely cheat on you. Personally, I think it is better to stay away from sex during your premarital relationship because sex will cloud your judgment.

Advice Me! My Girlfriend Dosent Tell Me She Loves Me...

Hello guys! I really your advice on this. I met a girl four months ago through a friend. I asked my friend to tell her that i like her a lot, which he did. Then later i ask my friend to collect her number for me but she told him to "forget that thing". Some weeks later I met her around my lecture Hall and i asked for her number. I said "i asked my friend to collect your number but you refused. oK can i have it or maybe i should give you mine?" She replied by saying "no, let me give you mine".

Advice Me: I Am In An Abusive Relationship And She Calls Me Weak

I am tired of my relationship because I have this girlfriend that really has a sharp mouth, she is always quick to throw insults at me in an argument and hide under her being a woman so she is allowed to run her mouth. Once we have any disagreement, she just begins to rain abuses on me and if I do so much as make any response to her, she believes that I am a weak man.

4 Ways Frequent S*X Can Help You Live Longer

Just when you thought a good roll in the hay couldn’t get any better, it turns out s*x could potentially also help you live longer. Here’s how:

1. Orgasms can add years to your life.  

Seriously. Lie back and think about this one. A 1997 study of over 900 men aged 45-59 found that men who reported more frequent orgasms (at least twice a week) had a 50 percent lower risk of death from coronary heart disease than their less-frequently orgasming (less than once a month) counterparts. The researchers say the findings can’t

I am foolishly Inlove....

Admin please share...  i have fallen in love with a man that will never be mine. From the start i knew it. I met him a year ago and have fallen in love since day one. He had a girl with a kid and another baby on the way. We met at my sisters house and its wrong from the very first moment i knew. I spend a month staying over with him because his girl was living in another town and we were in the same town.

I Had To Fight Out Cockroaches From My Room

I am a 27years old lady. I am someone that has so many friends, some leave new ones come. At every point am always having at least one staying with me. I stay at my parents house with just my sister and I,  last year I accommodated one of a friend I met at work. In the process, I got to know her more and I found out that she talks a lot so I started withdrawing from..

...her, she noticed it‎ and at times she chips it in that she doesn't talk like that with any other person. We've had cases where we had cold war and verbally attacked each other. When she came initially  anytime she eats she washes only her plate and leave the rest, so I explained to her to just drop her plate instead of doing that since we do collective plate...

Advice Me: I Had A Threesome With My Bestfriend’s Ex And His Friend

Please I am not sending this email so that anybody can judge me. I feel bad enough as it is and feel like I have betrayed a friendship. The situation is that I had a threesome sex with my best friend’s ex-boyfriend and a friend of his. I actually have no issues sleeping with my friend’s ex but I know that my best friend and her ex are still having s*x.

Advice Me: My Girlfriend Is Double Dating But Agreed To Marry Me

I have a girlfriend who also has another guy before we met. She is currently seeing the both of us and I know about the other guy but he doesn’t know about me. She tells me everything about the other guy but never wants the guy to know about me. I don’t understand it or what it is leading to. I am not really comfortable as when she is with me, she picks the other guy’s calls but if she is with him, she doesn’t take my calls.